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DEEDEE72 View Profile History	LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX Posted : 17 Oct, 2010 03:26 PM I was just listening to an interesting sermon on the Song of Solomon. One thing the pastor told the men was in marriage there are things that they will feel more comfortable doing than their wives (sextually). BUT that they should only go as far as the wife feels comforatble. Agree or dissagree? Also, personally I feel it is VERY important to discuss sex with a potential mate early in the relationship. Agree or disagree? Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX Posted : 17 Oct, 2010 04:00 PM Agree on both :) Post Reply
View Profile History	LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX Posted : 17 Oct, 2010 05:06 PM I agree on both. But I think that wives should be open to trying new things and being a little wild in bed. Post Reply
View Profile History	LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX Posted : 17 Oct, 2010 05:13 PM agree but at least wives should listen to the husband and think about the things he wants Post Reply
View Profile History	LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX Posted : 17 Oct, 2010 05:49 PM Agree. When husbands needs on sexual are not met, they would start looking for other ways to make his needs fulfilled. Besides, who says that wild sex are always not a gud thing? :ROFL: sometimes the same styles would capture us in routines that would end up in bore. We need some innovation and improvement, rite ;) Post Reply
View Profile History	LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX Posted : 17 Oct, 2010 05:53 PM Yes, Girl Who Wants To Be Married Cuz She Wants To Have SEX!!! :dancingp::dancingp::dancingp: I agree, DeeDee, to BOTH of your questions too ... and ... "wild in bed pixy", is your future mate goin' have BAREFOOT FUN in bed or WHAT?!!!! :dancingp::dancingp::dancingp::applause::applause::applause: to havin' LOTS of WILD BAREFOOT FUN IN BED IN MARRIAGE!!! :rocknroll::rocknroll::rocknroll::dancingp::dancingp::dancingp: Steve Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX Posted : 17 Oct, 2010 05:54 PM I agree on both, but I do think that a wife should be willing to at least try new things for her husband...if she still doesn't feel comfortable with it, then he should respect that. As for discussing sex early in a relationship, I think it depends on just how detailed a discussion you mean! Some things (like no sex before marriage) may need to be discussed prior to the first date, depending on how well I already know the guy and his standards. Other things, like the role of sex in a marriage, and possibly birth control methods and convictions about their use, should be discussed as the relationship gets more serious, but still fairly early on, as it might impact the future of the relationship. Post Reply
cowgirl1984 View Profile History	LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX Posted : 17 Oct, 2010 06:01 PM I agree with BC. It's important to consider what your husband wants, and if he's a godly man, hopefully he wouldn't want anything to kinky. I think there are lines that should never ever ever be crossed. But spice is DEFINITELY very important. As for discussing sex early in the relationship, you have to be careful. You don't want to talk about the kinds of things that will get your wheels turning. It's probably a bad idea to discuss specific fantasies until you both know you want to get married. Otherwise you're going to be fantasizing about fulfilling the other person's fantasies. Or at least I probably would be LOL. It's just how it is. Sometimes you can't help but picture things, and you don't want your thoughts to dwell on lustful images. Post Reply
View Profile History	LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX Posted : 17 Oct, 2010 06:09 PM It's not always true that the guy is the more wild one, but generally speaking, that is true. Generaly being the stronger of the two, it is import for the husband to be careful not to hurt his wife. It is also important for the wife to speak out and let him know that he is hurting her, for he may mistake her pain for passion. As far as when to speak about it, like BC said, it depends on how detailed of a talk you are speaking of. I would say later rather than sooner. There are two good books on the subject: The Gift of Sex and Getting Your Sex Life Off to a Good Start, both by Joice and Cliff Penner. The first book is for those who are already experienced with sex, and the second is for those who are waiting until marriage for sex. The writters are Christians, and the book focuses on the general mechanics, as well as the emotional side of sex. It's not a book that is filled with illustrations on sexual positions, in fact there are very few illustrations. It deal more with what a man or a woman appreciates, what sort of things to discuss, and how to discuss your desires. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX Posted : 17 Oct, 2010 08:12 PM I think that the basis for a marriage is "selflessness", so submitting to each others sexual desires should be governed by love for each other. A man that loves his wife would never even think about doing anything demeaning to her, and a woman that loves her husband would not turn sex into a boring chore or a commodity to be traded. Each would be putting the other's needs above their own and I think that would be a very satisfying relationship for all parties involved. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX Posted : 18 Oct, 2010 01:00 AM "wild in bed pixy" ?????? Yikes... lol That's not really what I was trying to communicate there. Post Reply

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