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What Are You Looking For In A Spouse?
Posted : 20 Nov, 2025 05:29 AM

I'm wondering what YOU are searching for in a spouse. The most important attributes to you.



For me, she must be born again, having the testimony of Jesus Christ, having found mercy and she must have the Spirit of Christ in her. She should have an active relationship with the Lord and know that includes hearing the Lord's voice and doing what He says (John 10:27-28, Matthew 7:23, Luke 6:46) Someone that loves the words of God and has received a love of the truth. She should be humble and willingly submit herself to my headship as her lord and not be a cuntentious woman that rebels against my will. Someone that's not been espoused to any other man and divorced while her husband is still alive; a woman that is indeed free to marry. John 4, 1 Corinthians 72-39, Romans 7:2-3



A woman that is easy on the eyes, yet dresses in modest apparel in public. Someone that celebrates the union of the twain becoming one flesh.



What are YOU looking for in a spouse?

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What Are You Looking For In A Spouse?
Posted : 20 Nov, 2025 08:53 AM

Glad to see you are still here, nomoreusernamesleft.

One may say ditto marks on a lot of what you have written.

I hope for Proverbs 31:12 women.

"She brings him good and not harm all of the days of her life."

I'm looking for a little rebel in the sense that she rejects human teachings, but inclines herself to the Words of God and what the Bible teaches rather than other ideas that replace Bible ideas.

I favor a woman that wants to homeschool our children.

I favor a woman who is not open to abortion.

I want a woman that will read the Bible with me and that the Bible is a significant part of our children's homeschool education.

I don't want a woman that is married or separated or divorced.

I don't want another man's wife.

Human teachings perish with use. (Colossians 2:22)

I want a woman that offers me the Bible.

I want a woman who is good to me.

I want a woman who does not involve others against me.

I want a woman who is somewhat self-sufficient like a Proverbs 31:10-31 woman.

I do not want a Proverbs 31:3 woman.

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What Are You Looking For In A Spouse?
Posted : 20 Nov, 2025 08:59 AM

I do not want a woman like the women that have been contributing on these forums.

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Posted : 20 Nov, 2025 12:53 PM

The absolute most important thing is whatever woman a man wants she has to be so attracted to him that she will do anything for him including being submissive. She must also be young and the closer to 18 the better because the longer she stays single the more independent she becomes. If she is those things but not a Christian, she will want to be one because you are one so you must lead her to Jesus. If she doesn't want to be a Christian then she's just not that into you.

Those things are hands down the most important but even with all that there's no guarantee it will last because if at any point she loses respect for you then it's only a matter of time before things fall apart. It doesn't matter if she's Christian or not because you will no longer be seen as the man for her. She will have already started planning for her exit and when she feels the time is right she will leave and more often than not she will destroy everything she can on her way out.

I know that the Christian side of men will believe that Jesus will keep the relationship together. But he will only be able to as long as both want him to fix all problems that arise. Nowadays all younger Christian women have one foot in the world and one out. Their phone and social media is a direct connection to Satan and women are very active with that connection and because of that if at any point she decides she wants to leave the relationship it will likely be directly related to social media. While you are seeking Jesus for help in saving the marriage. She will be seeking information through social media on how to leave. Even if she also seeks Jesus it will be colored by social media.

The reality is men have little chance of a lasting relationship. That's because Satan knows exactly what to say to women and cell phones and social media are the perfect medium to get through to them. I'm out of the running but I pray those who still have a chance at meeting a mate find one who starts out great and stays for better or worse until death do they part.

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