Why do guys start to talk to a girl, but when they find out about their children, they run far and fast/
Posted : 27 Dec, 2008 09:52 AM
All of you gave her a good answer because if a person can not accept your kids that says alot about their MOTIVES.
The bible say in all things give THANKS. Thank God that they left before they came into your life in a personal way and had a chance to meet your kids only to find out they did not care for your kids and was with you for selfish reasons.:applause: send them a THANK YOU GIFT:applause:
It is not a women Job to go out here way to comfort all the
guys that like her that she do not like.
A women need a confident man that Know who he is. I mean what man want a women he have to build up everyday just to have a relationship.
YOU SAID IF SHE IS RECEPTIVE YOU WILL GET IN GEAR AND TAKE THE LEAD:ROFL:
Brother my advice to you would be spend Time Meditating on who you are in Christ. Learn your own self value as a Man and get busy about that.
You will fine out that the ladies Love that in a Man. EVERY WOMEN WANT A LEADER NOT SOMEONE THEY HAVE TO TRAIN TO LEAD. A man with NO SELF-CONFIDENCE SET HIMSELF UP TO GET HURT.
The bottom line is you are going to be accountable for doing the will of God for your Life. Eph 5:21 speaks about submitting to one another. That does not take anything from the role of the man.Submission have been misunderstood by most men.
Submitting to one another simply mean As a wife she submit to the will of God for her husband life AND LIKEWISE husband submit to the will of God for your wife life.
Because you as a women say you did mission work and you wanted to get married GOD WILL NOT TELL YOU TO STOP DOING MINISTRY BECAUSE JOHN DOE HAS CAME IN THE PICTURE.John Doe need to know that the will of God is priority for your life and you do mission work and this is you yearly schedule:How do you feel?
That is why it is so important as a single person to get in the will of God for your life and meet that person in the will with understanding vs You are married with kids and now want to get in the will.Getting in Gods will is good at any time but if you are married to someone with the MAN POWER ATTITUDE it may be harder because of your life responsibilities.:bow:
It is not a man thing it is that person..because I personally am attracted to the self-confident women who know who she is and what she want out of life. I honestly think you should not give it to much energy because look at it this way as a blessing from God that have you covered for the right one and all the guys that feel intimidated was not the one.Trust me when God send him to you he will see you beyond how you look or what you have accomplished and flow with God and hook up with you and the friendship begin so sis DO NOT LOWER YOUR STANDARD BECAUSE YOU MAY ATTRACT A BUZZARD EAGLES FLY HIGH LOOKING AT THE STORM IN THE EYE AND RISE ABOVE IT OR DO YOU WANT A BUZZARD THAT HOPFULLY HE MAKE IT THROUGH.
I am enjoying the fellowship in that we could see and understand each others perspective. I want to encourage you and everyone that is enjoynig this topice that we have the mind of Christ Philippians 2:5 say Let this mind be in you,which was in Christ Jesus. Jesus only said and did what the father told him to do and say.Like leon mentioned about Rom 12 when we renew our minds we take on the Mind of Christ.Family that is where our Power is because with out a renewed mind we would not know our rights.Remember God
said My people are destroyed for the LACK OF KNOWLEDGE
HOSEA 4:6. Lets draw closer to God spend 15 or more minutes each day meditating on the word of God that you need for where you are ask God he will lead you to the verse
get in a private spot and start seeing yourself walk out that word in your life. Example: its hard for you to tithe but you know it is in the word and it is the will of God for our life.When you start meditating on seeing yourself tithe with
joy next thing you know tithing will be easy.That is what Joshua 1:8 mean when it say...meditate day in night That you may observe to do... I want to focus on the word OBSERVE it means to apply one self. look that word up in Hebrew it mean to apply yourself. What ever you meditate on it become easy to do.That work in the world you have to see yourself making that sale or closing the business deal.
My brothers and sisters I speak peace to your Minds in the Name of Jesus. Lets fight a good fight of FAITH:boxing:
I agree we do have to allow the word of God to be a standard by where we judge our heart or MOTIVES. Hebrews
4:12...the word of God is a discerner of the THOUGHTS and INTENTS of the HEART. We are responsible for what get in our heart by 1)eye gate 2) mouth gate 3)ear gate. what we look at in abundance,what we talk about in abundance, what we listen to in abundance and once acted upon become our life.No one just end up being lustful because of the devil he do not have that kind of power any more because of the BLOOD OF JESUS. Once we come in agreement with darkness we give him a chance to steal,kill,and destroy. SO IF A PERSON CAME TO ME AND SAID THEY NEED HELP TO OVERCOME LUST my first goal would be to go to the source OF WHERE YOUR ATTENTION IS GOING because until you deal with the root nothing will change this apply to pastors as well they fall AS WELL once there attention change from the things of God to porn web-sites next thing you know the PASTOR is sleeping around in his church and you say look what the devil:devil: did NO look what the pastor did when he started visiting porn sites that he was drawn to by HIS OWN LUST JAMES 1:13-15.When we do not undertand how things show up in our life the DEVIL be sitting back doing this:ROFL:because we do not understand his devices by using images and famous people to get our attention and once we feed upon it long enough it become our life.Like same sex marriage its all over the US ON TV and famous people kissing on award shows that teens watch and we WONDER WHY A LOT OF TEENS ARE LIVING THE GAY LIFE STYLE. IN THIS COUNTRY IF IT MAKE A DOLLAR WE GO WITH IT NOT REALIZING OUR CHILDREN ARE SUFFERING BECAUSE OF ADULTS GREED AND NEGLECT. sorry bro this is another topic all together.
You say Lust is anything your body tells you it want. So,my body need food and water but to recieve that I am in lust? Think about what you said.Let me give you a better understanding of where I am coming from and I am going to stick to this Topic. When a man see an attractive women and in his heart she looks good to him one of two things will happen 1) He will desire her in a lustful way by only wanting to please himself.or 2) He will only desire to do her good in that his focus is to give (which is LOVE)not take which is selfishness where lust breed from. Proverbs 4:23 Tell us to guard our heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life.With that in Mind only God and his word could judge the motive of someone heart. It depend on what you have sown in your heart that determine your motives of why you desire a wife.Just because I and million of other men desire an Attractive wife does not mean it is lust.It is a lot of attractive Saved, Holy Ghost filled sisters out there that desire to be married too. I have the Confidence I can have one. Leon be it unto you according to your FAITH.God desire that we marry he is all for that and the fact that we all come in different colors ,sizes,shapes,etc tells us we are going to have to choose. Some men low self confidence cause them to go after the low self confident women but in there heart they want the top model but because of low self esteem they settle for what they can get then say ITS NOT ABOUT HOW THE WOMEN LOOK I LOOK AT THE HEART in them same brothers be addicted to porn.All I am saying everyone must judge themselves.Leon To show you how I avoid the old lust trap is keep my heart right with God and set boundaries. Sisters that go out in public or come to church with all there goods hanging out that I have to deal with I guard my heart by where my ATTENTION GO because desires come from where you place your attention. You see skin every where in these last days so what do you do as a man where a mask to avoid lust NO you guard what you but in your heart.Spending to much time watching Tv is a gate for negative lustful seeds to get in your heart and become your life. Thats why God told us to renew our MINDS from the worlds way of doing things.
christine1967 The only problem I think concern me with your answer is YOU PUT ON YOUR WEIGHT SO YOUR HUSBAND WOULD NOT BE ATTRACTED TO YOU ANY MORE yes your husband was not faithful but you have to love yourself. putting on weight is more then an physical attraction but your HEALTH your body belong to GOD it is not yours to treat any kind of way.God have a purpose and a plan for your life and he need your body to flow through.Look at it this way I stay health so I could fulfill the will of God for my life.You are that same attracted person because the real you is a spirit. So join a gym and start eating things that add to you health and not take it away you may SAY but Michael I have developed a habit of eating when I am not hungry and my answer to that is do not neglect yourself just choose the right thing to eat.you can enjoy and get full off the right things and the weight will take care of it self.:peace:
