Author Thread: Things in a profile that will scare girls away
Demeray

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Things in a profile that will scare girls away
Posted : 30 Sep, 2019 07:34 AM

Here is my theory:



It is new.



A girl can list maybe a dozen requirements, even fussy things, and still get plenty of offers. Moreover, she can describe herself in pretty much any way (love church - sick of church, hate cooking - love it, want to travel - prefer staying home). Flooded with messages.



But presenting qualifications (eg: someone who reads) to a female (in contrast to a guy merely describing himself in the profile) will send the girls fleeing.



They fear being measured, in any way.



Feel free to disagree. Even though I am right. : Kidding. I am not ready to declare this one proven yet.

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Marcouse

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Things in a profile that will scare girls away
Posted : 6 Oct, 2019 10:08 AM

No money is fine as long as you have a credit card & a decent credit score.

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Things in a profile that will scare girls away
Posted : 9 Oct, 2019 06:29 PM

Demeray - some of your thoughts seem to contradict what you say. most men don't write enough to scare anyone, let alone, interest them enough to write.

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slightlybrokenwing72

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Posted : 23 Nov, 2019 04:11 PM

@rambo919... that's true for some people... and i'd shy away from someone who was broke because of being irresponsible (i'm lucky to have not had to worry about this, but seen it wreck some of my friends...) financial problems can be indicative of overall poor self control (which can be scary)

but a lot of people get to their 40s or 50s and aren't well off even if they are good, reliable, honest people. "its not a shame to be poor" as Tevye said :)

probably the best profile on this site, the guy is clear that he's not in good shape... but everything else about the profile screams that he's a good man and would be a great husband... (yeah, too shy to message him... but i click his profile a couple times a week and hope :P lol ).

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Loree7

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Posted : 8 Feb, 2020 07:53 AM

There are many scammers, thus if there is only one picture I usually ignore the profile.



If the profile picture is any of the following, I grimace:

in the restroom (especially public ones)

in the gym

without a shirt

sprawled on the bed

with a kissing expression



I move along if the profile shows an immature, emotionally needy boy

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Loree7

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Posted : 20 Feb, 2020 04:10 PM

I would also say that God built in man a desire to conquer. This is a blessing in a home because he wants to help and wants to provided. Could it be that he might see the list as something to conquer?

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