Is it as hard for the men to speak up and start a conversation as it is for some of us? (some think the man should initiate anyway, or she is ..........whatever)
Even when someone puts you in favorites, it seems they never write and ...how else are you going to find anything out?? Many don't frequent the forums, which I think is a great place to see what they are about.
Do you feel if you email privatly that she will think you are "too serious" or something?
Having raised boys that were all into weight training at some point and an ex that never lifted a finger to take care of himself...guess it really appeals to me for someone to want to look good (especially if it was for me :hearts: )
Course online, you can't tell what a person's heart is, so being honest, you are looking...gotta start somewhere. which leads me to another question, so I will put it in "ask a guy"
To everyone else who already read the following, please forgive me. Mocha, here is the story of my marine:
My son was ~just a "kid" at left home to become a Marine. He did well and first in his class a became a sniper. (he was saved at 12yrs btw)
When asked how he was really doing during a phone call while still in boot camp, the answer I got was:
"Ma...I am the only one of 75 men who doesn't drink and sleep around and now they all know it, how do you THINK I AM?!?! I can laugh now, but I could Feel that kids emotions!
And Praise God for his testimony. Anyway, two tours in Iraq. One early visit home was becasue he took gunfire at close range.(he was point man) His men thought he was dead and proceeded to take the enemy and killing the man who shot my son w/ his own knife, they brought the knife back to my son's body. Another testimony as he later told them God must not be done w/ him...only a bullet to the thigh, missing the bone, and losing his thumb! the bullet that knocked him down was stopped by his ammo thing on his jacket (sorry guys, don't know the terms). SOOO, the story goes:
Ma, you need to find me a wife when I come home.
"ugh, yeah, hon, sure" . I Had been praying, but this was a bit a pressure!
I found her at church. She lived in another town, but worked near me, but renting a room for the wk working close and then going home on wkends.
I brought her to my farm (he wasn't back yet). Couldn't believe how she just 'fit'. Invited her to 4th of July when he got back. they went out the next night. They actually kinda interrogated each other~down to what kind of pizza they liked, how many kids, etc. etc. They married the following June. They compromised on the pizza ingredients.
God answers prayer~and He likes to answer when we are obedient.
