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I need your feedback. Is mt picture inapropriate for this site?
Posted : 5 Mar, 2009 06:06 AM
I had just bought a new camera phone and wanted to try it out.....so I snapped a pic off my guest bathroon mirror.
I wasn't even thinking about what I was wearing. I havn't gotten one negative comment from younger men....but, a couple older men have written to me saying that I am showing to much cleavage.
I live in Florida and i guess we wear less clothing here most of the year. The top I had on is'nt one that I would wear to church......but, I wouldn't wear a bathing suit either.....that's for the beach or at home.
So i need some feedback.....do you think that it is wrong for me to wear a top like this at anytime....or just because it is my profile pic? Resectfully, Colleen
I need your feedback. Is mt picture inapropriate for this site?
Posted : 12 Mar, 2009 06:41 AM
Hey Guys,
This ought to make for an interesting discussion. When you are married would you prefer that your wife stay home and take care of you or would you prefer that she work outside of the home? Why or why not?
I need your feedback. Is mt picture inapropriate for this site?
Posted : 12 Mar, 2009 07:29 AM
I think if you are planning on having children, it is important for the Mom to be able to stay home and raise them. However, once the children are older, I think that is entirely up to the woman.
If she wants to work, I have no problem with that. I think it should be her decision. The husband can offer support, and be there for her if she has problems, but should let her decide about a job.
I do think it should be the responsibility of the husband to make enough money that the wife does have the option of staying home if she wants. I am not saying he has to make over $100,000 a year, but he should be able to pay the bills. If he can't do that, he should wait to have a family until he can afford it. Rushing into things before you are ready only puts more pressure on both parties, and will make the wife feel that she has no choice but to work.
I will say that taking care of things at home is a job in itself, and the husband needs to recognize that up front. A compliment on the way the house looks will go far toward making her feel appreciated.
I need your feedback. Is mt picture inapropriate for this site?
Posted : 12 Mar, 2009 07:35 AM
Leon,
Thanks for acknowledging the fact that taking care of the house is a job! Good answer, and I do agree about the need for compliments on a job well done around the house.
I also feel that we women need to show more appreciation for a man's willingness to work hard enough to allow his wife to stay home.
