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HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Guys never show interest in me, what could be the reason Posted : 13 Jul, 2023 07:58 PM I agree with most of the points you listed but disagree with the 30 year thing competing against the 23 year old. I've gotten waaay more men interested in me now than at 23. But I do agree with maybe not engaging in finding a man actively.
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	If a guy suddenly teases you, could it mean he likes you? Posted : 13 Jul, 2023 07:52 PM There is this guy I know and we do talk but he talks to other people I know more. He helped my friends and I out one day and one of my friends joked and said to him, what made you come here to help out? Anyways, I noticed he kind of was ignoring me for a while and would talk to others way more so I started acting a little standoffish towards him. He noticed the way I was acting so he suddenly started talking to me one day and he seemed like he was waiting for me to talk. He seemed sorry so I started making an effort to be friendly again like I was before. Recently, he seems more animated around me and asked someone I know if I was going to where everyone was going to be. He does stare at me a lot too. Now the question is he has never been comfortable enough to tease me and he surprised me one day and made fun of me carrying a bag around but just to tease not to be mean. I laughed because I thought it was funny. He then gave a really hearty laugh. I've never seen him act this way before? Has something changed?
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Does this guy like me, hate me, or just like other people Posted : 5 Jun, 2023 01:40 AM There is this guy I know and when he is talking to my group, he will make some comments to me but will talk to everyone else there much more. I have been at this place (work) longer or as long as everyone else and he is extremely personal and friendly with everyone except for me. These are some scenarios with I'll call one girl A and the other B. With B, he always asks her how her mom is. This guy and her talked in front of me. Then with A, he has made some comments to her such as she changed her hair (even though I had just cut mine) and are you feeling better? Etc almost like he is flirting with her? But I can't tell because one day he didn't talk to her. With me, conversations are short but has told me a few things like he was going to see his mom New Year's and asked what I was doing for mine, a little about his grandparents, where he shops, etc. very short comments. When I try to ask him questions, etc or if I mention a personal thing, he doesn't expound really on what I say. One day he came to my area with my group and someone said oh you never come here.. because he was trying to fix something for us. He usually comes to our area when I am there. I decided to start just ignoring him like he does to me and I think he noticed on 2 separate occasions. After those two times, one day I noticed he tried to run into me when I was leaving and started to talk to me and went with me on the escalator. I couldn't ignore him at that point because he was attempting to talk. So I don't think he liked that I was ignoring him. Sometimes he's very friendly smiles and says hi to me, one time asked if I was okay after the ignoring session but like the other day I waved and said hi and he stared at me from top to bottom and didn't say anything. He has gotten into my personal space very close to me, touched my arm twice before. Gives eye contact, etc. Stands behind me. Should I just continue to ignore him or just continue to talk to him?
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Guys never show interest in me, what could be the reason Posted : 29 May, 2023 01:58 AM Ok, thank you for your advice! Yes volunteering might be a great way to meet someone
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Guys never show interest in me, what could be the reason Posted : 24 May, 2023 02:18 AM Thank you to all of you for your answers! Very informative and I will take your advice on just focusing on the here and now until someone maybe pops up in my life.

HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Why are you single? Posted : 24 May, 2023 01:59 AM 1) I have to agree with you on the generation thing. I am waayyyy different than my generation. I'm polite, don't use social media, like to talk face to face with people, have different interests, not wildly different but not the same either. 2) I guess I am introverted as well. I don't go out that much to meet people. 3) Every relationship I embark on turns to dust. One boyfriend suddenly broke it off, I've been ghosted, or they only want one thing. I get approached by all of the wrong men. 4) I am very picky and only like a specific man at a time. For instance, I'll like one man a LOT but not like 99% of the other men. I'm very selective but not unrealistically.
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Why are you single? Posted : 24 May, 2023 01:58 AM 1) I have to agree with you on the generation thing. I am waayyyy different than my generation. I'm polite, don't use social media, like to talk face to face with people, have different interests, not wildly different but not the same either. 2) I guess I am introverted as well. I don't go out that much to meet people. 3) Every relationship I embark on turns to dust. One boyfriend suddenly broke it off, I've been ghosted, or they only want one thing. I get approached by all of the wrong men. 4) I am very picky and only like a specific man at a time. For instance, I'll like one man a LOT but not like 99% of the other men. I'm very selective but not unrealistically.
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	looking for an oldfashoned Christian Posted : 24 May, 2023 01:52 AM I think online is one good format or way to meet someone but you will probably find someone better in person in my honest opinion. Too many weirdos online. I've met men so far and they have all been strange in my opinion, including one who suddenly ghosted me after 1 year of talking and meeting up, plus dumb hookup seekers, etc. Maybe join a group or hobby you enjoy and see if you can meet someone that way. Good luck!
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	He changed after I did this, why? Posted : 22 May, 2023 11:05 PM Sorry another part I meant to mention is that when it was just me and my coworker he would only talk to them and ignore me. This had happened twice with me and I decided to ignore because he ignored
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	He changed after I did this, why? Posted : 22 May, 2023 09:37 PM Also, he normally wears a mask and I notice now he shows his face more around me