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HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too Posted : 13 Feb, 2024 07:28 AM Jayzeee you have a point there because my dad has said the same thing before. Not to wait weeks and weeks. That a guy should be seeing you after a few weeks
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too Posted : 10 Feb, 2024 12:11 PM Yes understandably but we did meet as friends first though but he said he liked me a lot. I guess the way he lovebombed and then completely vanished was strange.
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too Posted : 10 Feb, 2024 09:16 AM I was talking to a man I met on here for about a year and a half. We got along and talked a lot, pretty much every day. Eventually, he said that we should meet. We ended up meeting and he told me he might be quiet at first so I said okay. I met him over the course of a weekend for three separate days because he stayed here for the weekend in my city. I noticed anytime I would try talking to him, he would ping-pong it right back and never expound on any conversation to be had. I was trying to get him to open up a little. After meeting he ghosted me. This is after almost two years of talking, exchanging Christmas gifts, and me getting up at 6 am for work that day and meeting him after. Later, I come to find on his profile that he didn't want to "see a girl's surroundings, but to get to know the girl" haha hilarious. I don't think so. I even tried going out to the city because I thought that would get him out of his shell. Needless to say the whole experience was weird. We talked beforehand about our morals etc, how we view relationships, etc. He even said he forgot one of our conversations even though I had told him prior. He also kept asking me are you affectionate?? I told him in a relationship I am. He also texted me after one of the days and said you went home early, even though I had spent 5 hours with him! Going to dinner. I made a lot of effort to get to know and everything but even the barista at the coffee shop we went to gave him the cold staredown so I think people had him dialed before me. What do you think happened? It has made me not want to pursue anyone further or get into a relationship at all. In fact, I have made a vow to give up entirely.
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Why does everything that happens to me bad Posted : 2 Feb, 2024 01:45 PM Clark, "You've been attacked for having hundreds of favorites on your profile and not going with any of them. Frankly, I've seen the guys on this site... I'm on your side here. It doesn't take Sherlock Holmes to deduce that a lot of guys here are weird" You couldn't have said it any better. Haha! But you don't seem weird. And IntheCrowd, great sound advice you've given me as well! And Moonlight, your advice is great too! We'll just let Handyman and FDCWillard handle their delusional thoughts and arguments to themselves!
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Is he interested, or just being friendly (irl)? Posted : 2 Feb, 2024 01:36 PM I have had men approach me in lines before to speak. Some can just be friendly and extroverted. But some may be interested. I've heard that men only talk to people they are interested in too though. I think it depends on the context of what they are saying and also their body language like smiling, staring, etc.

HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	A Scenario for the Ladies Posted : 7 Jan, 2024 08:19 PM Probably stick with the first but I've heard of even guy friends where a girl will date one and end up with the other one. Does happen but not sure how common or rare that is
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Should I just ignore this whole thing Posted : 20 Dec, 2023 06:51 PM Thank you Clark! Yes it is a bit tough to analyze and accept something that might be true or not true based on actions. Thanks!
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Should I just ignore this whole thing Posted : 20 Dec, 2023 10:33 AM This is a serious question that needs serious answers, jokers need not apply. I cannot just "ask" him. That would never work, we are in a professional setting.
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Should I just ignore this whole thing Posted : 20 Dec, 2023 12:49 AM I work with this man at my job and I cannot tell if he likes me or dislikes me. He will be friendly towards me but we started off on the wrong foot. He used to come to the area where I work and would chat with every coworker but me. It was almost as if he was going out of his way to ignore me. I started to just ignore him back because I really didn't care and he noticed and was bothered by it. The next day he started being where I was and talking to me I guess as a way to apologize. So I started being friendly again. When I talk to him, he kind of just clams up and never says anything more than a sentence or two. He seems almost short with me. I do notice he is around my area often, that's the only thing I notice. As far as body language goes, I notice he has gotten close to me before like near me very closely. He has touched my arm a bit before too. I just don't get it. He seems like he really dislikes me. Should I just ignore this whole thing?
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	I think this guy likes me but should I just act friendly and ignore it Posted : 16 Dec, 2023 08:53 PM I've been at my workplace for 2 years now and there is a seasonal worker that works with me. One night, he asked me after work if I'd like to grab a bite to eat with him. I politely declined and said sorry that I have to be up early the next day. Later that evening, he asked me if I wanted him to walk with me to drop something off and I said, no I'm okay, nicely. Tonight, he had gone to a coffee shop right next to where we work and we said hi to each other. He asked me, so do you like the banana bread more or the other one which I forgot. I then said oh thank you for the thought, but I already am full and had sweets earlier. It was true because one of my coworkers brought sweets. My coworker randomly one day said we'd make a cute couple and said we should get together. This seasonal worker and I talk nicely to each other and have had a few conversations but I just feel awkward. Should I just ignore this and continue to act friendly as coworkers?