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HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	This guy overmessages me, should I respond Posted : 14 Apr, 2023 07:55 PM There is this guy I was talking to quite frequently on here but I notice I will reply, and then he will repeat the same message like 5 times to me. At one point, I went off the site and he made two accounts and messaged me repeatedly. I've confronted him about it and he just says it's his computer which it obviously isn't. He overmessages. So far, I've cut off contact but I will occasionally find a message pop up from him. Should I continue to ignore him?
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Guy keeps talking to everyone else but me (a little long) Posted : 29 Mar, 2023 11:17 PM I work with a man at my job and he will help me with my questions that I may have about work but I notice he will talk to everyone around me and get personal with them but never talks to me at all. For instance, this one friend I had he asked where she had been all along because she had been gone for a while and joked with her about her hair because she changes it a lot. He never said hi to me, just completely ignored me. Then the next time I was closing with her, he didn't talk to me or her which was strange. Then tonight, he talked to another coworker of mine only. I was counting money and he helped me and kept pointing at the screen in front of me trying to get into my personal space but I'm not sure. He just kept getting really close to me while trying to explain to me. He does sometimes get a little impatient if I don't know something right away. I tried to smile, be friendly, and chime in to their conversation tonight but he said to me "don't get distracted." He starts full-blown ignoring me and asking her how her mom was and about how he went on vacation. They are talking right in front of me. He only talks to me very once in a blue moon. Once he asked me what my plans were for New Year's and he claimed he was doing the same thing as me like hanging with family but when I tried to further the conversation, he just walked out of the room. Another time, I was going to go out in the rain and he asked me "no jacket?" He then said I'd get sick and he pointed to a cover that I could use to walk outside. Plus I went on vacation and he copied me and went on vacation a week after. Not sure if this relates to the question. He's nice sometimes but really ignores me. I also notice that when I am nice, he comes over to my area but when I ignore him, he stops hanging around me. Should I just ignore him instead of acting like an idiot trying to get his attention?
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Why do I attract bad men/not getting married Posted : 27 Mar, 2023 12:40 AM Thank you! So true. And thank you for your answer about different environments. I'll try that, I remember that working a few years back because I met 2 people by being in clubs. It is much harder these days but I have faith.
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Why do I attract bad men/not getting married Posted : 26 Mar, 2023 09:52 PM Because I know my best friend has no job or degree and she's been married for 7 years
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Why do I attract bad men/not getting married Posted : 26 Mar, 2023 09:51 PM What do you mean by pr degree? Retail

HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Why do I attract bad men/not getting married Posted : 25 Mar, 2023 10:58 PM The title pretty much sums it up. I am practically the only single one out of all of my friends. Most people I've known from high school or my friends are married and I usually attract strange men or ones that just want very casual. The last two dates I went on were disasters. I'm attractive, like to talk about many things, have a good amount of hobbies. For instance, on here I find guys who message me have very empty profiles or are strange. I've come across men I am interested, messaged, but no response. Or they never initiate any conversation with me. So my friends are married, my best friend has been married for 7 years, my mom's and dad's friend's kids are married, people I see in public that are younger than me are all getting married. The list goes on. My questions are why do I attract bad/uninteresting men and why am I not marriage material?
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	What should I do in this situation Posted : 8 Mar, 2023 11:16 PM Thank you guys for all of your answers! Very informative and I appreciate them
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	People say I don't seem interested, why Posted : 8 Mar, 2023 11:12 PM I'm 30, he's 34. I live in California, he lives in Texas.
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	People say I don't seem interested, why Posted : 8 Mar, 2023 11:11 PM I'm 30, he's 34. I live in California, he lives in Texas.
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	I feel conflicted because I feel like I pushed a good friend/romantic interest away Posted : 8 Mar, 2023 10:39 PM I started talking to guy I met online for about 2 years, a little bit on and off for a few months sometimes but overall pretty consistently like every day. We even had nicknames for each other. He said he liked me but to meet as friends which I agreed upon because he said he didn't want either of us to be disappointed if things don't work out. He told me we would both see if we liked each other in person. He decided to fly to meet me out of state for three days. We met before and after my work and he treated me well to two lunches and we walked around a bit. We even saw some scenery and things around my town. He just was incredibly quiet which he mentioned but he really didn't speak much at all except for a few times. We hugged and exchanged Christmas gifts. He then flew back and I noticed he didn't text me so I said have a safe trip back and that I liked my gift, Merry Christmas. He didn't text me for about a little over a week and said sorry I was late in replying, glad you liked your gift. I noticed also at the time that he deleted his dating profile on the site we met on. Then I replied to his text and he didn't text back again for another week and said sorry for late reply. How'd you know something bad didn't happen to me? I said you would have not been able to contact me if it did. I then got mad and said I don't go for boring married scammers because I was mad and he said I forgive you for calling me boring but I'm not a scammer or married. I apologized later but deleted my app and went back on it again later but didn't know if he ever came back. We haven't talked for almost 2 months. Should I text him just to see how he is doing as a friend? Because I feel maybe I pushed too hard.