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horsecrazy3423 View Profile History	Who should send the first message and/or wink? Posted : 12 Apr, 2023 02:17 PM If I would like to get to know someone better should I be the first one to send a massage or should I let the guy do it? Thank you and have a great day. Post Reply
CDFF21467^ View Profile History	Who should send the first message and/or wink? Posted : 12 Apr, 2023 03:36 PM How will they know you exist without saying hi? Post Reply
LittleDavid View Profile History	Who should send the first message and/or wink? Posted : 12 Apr, 2023 03:38 PM Go with good o’horse sense and take a risk. Post Reply
1jon310 View Profile History	Who should send the first message and/or wink? Posted : 12 Apr, 2023 04:51 PM Go ahead and send a message. It seems like most of the accounts are not active here anyway. A couple sentences and then throw in a question that requires some thought from the reciever is good. Winks very often elicit no response. May the Lord guide you and keep you Post Reply

Moonlight7 View Profile History	Who should send the first message and/or wink? Posted : 22 Jun, 2023 07:29 AM If you want to do it, send a message he can reply or refuse. Many women online get no dates or relationships because the wait . Men have hundreds of women to choose from . Post Reply
2mountain View Profile History	Who should send the first message and/or wink? Posted : 4 Jul, 2023 01:06 AM The thing that always comes to my mind is, what would you do in person or in real life? A wink always seemed to me to be a rather passive, take the hint or leave it kind of thing. I sometimes send one because I can't think of anything to say. But coming from a gal I would assume that she wants to chat, and if I find her interesting I'll assume she's invited a conversation. In real life it seems to me that the female of the species usually initiates the possibility of a conversation. If she doesn't show any interest, I won't usually say anything or even try to talk to her in normal life. It is a bit different here though, because I know that she's single (or etc.) and what she's looking for. Possibly. Now what I'm supposed to do when a gal here seems interesting, has looked at my profile a dozen times over the last 6 months, and never sent me a message - and also has blocked messages from guys who smoke - hmm that one is puzzling. Post Reply
Zimneno View Profile History	Who should send the first message and/or wink? Posted : 15 Sep, 2023 02:56 AM If YOU would like to know someone. Just message them. no playing hard to get Post Reply