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HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Should I try to pursue a long distance relationship? Posted : 19 Feb, 2024 12:21 PM I met a new guy on here recently and I've talked with him shortly before. Recently he came back and we've talked a little more in depth. I told him, I don't think long-distance relationships can work. The last relationship I had the guy lived out of state too and when we met there was no connection. It seems like I meet guys that live in the United States but never in my state. I've also had people tell me that long distance never works. Should I give it a shot? Or just kindly stay friends?
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too Posted : 17 Feb, 2024 11:11 AM Guys give up soo easily these days... tsk tsk no wonder so many women are single
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too Posted : 13 Feb, 2024 07:32 AM Went really in depth to ask about what he does for the Christmas season, where his favorite trips have been, about his family, his home where he is from. I said things about me too - a thing called equal conversation which we had
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too Posted : 13 Feb, 2024 07:30 AM And for the record, he did like me and complimented me multiple times on the date. Even said I have a positive vibe about this
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too Posted : 13 Feb, 2024 07:29 AM Walkntalk haha funny!

HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too Posted : 13 Feb, 2024 07:28 AM Jayzeee you have a point there because my dad has said the same thing before. Not to wait weeks and weeks. That a guy should be seeing you after a few weeks
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too Posted : 10 Feb, 2024 12:11 PM Yes understandably but we did meet as friends first though but he said he liked me a lot. I guess the way he lovebombed and then completely vanished was strange.
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too Posted : 10 Feb, 2024 09:16 AM I was talking to a man I met on here for about a year and a half. We got along and talked a lot, pretty much every day. Eventually, he said that we should meet. We ended up meeting and he told me he might be quiet at first so I said okay. I met him over the course of a weekend for three separate days because he stayed here for the weekend in my city. I noticed anytime I would try talking to him, he would ping-pong it right back and never expound on any conversation to be had. I was trying to get him to open up a little. After meeting he ghosted me. This is after almost two years of talking, exchanging Christmas gifts, and me getting up at 6 am for work that day and meeting him after. Later, I come to find on his profile that he didn't want to "see a girl's surroundings, but to get to know the girl" haha hilarious. I don't think so. I even tried going out to the city because I thought that would get him out of his shell. Needless to say the whole experience was weird. We talked beforehand about our morals etc, how we view relationships, etc. He even said he forgot one of our conversations even though I had told him prior. He also kept asking me are you affectionate?? I told him in a relationship I am. He also texted me after one of the days and said you went home early, even though I had spent 5 hours with him! Going to dinner. I made a lot of effort to get to know and everything but even the barista at the coffee shop we went to gave him the cold staredown so I think people had him dialed before me. What do you think happened? It has made me not want to pursue anyone further or get into a relationship at all. In fact, I have made a vow to give up entirely.
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Why does everything that happens to me bad Posted : 2 Feb, 2024 01:45 PM Clark, "You've been attacked for having hundreds of favorites on your profile and not going with any of them. Frankly, I've seen the guys on this site... I'm on your side here. It doesn't take Sherlock Holmes to deduce that a lot of guys here are weird" You couldn't have said it any better. Haha! But you don't seem weird. And IntheCrowd, great sound advice you've given me as well! And Moonlight, your advice is great too! We'll just let Handyman and FDCWillard handle their delusional thoughts and arguments to themselves!
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Is he interested, or just being friendly (irl)? Posted : 2 Feb, 2024 01:36 PM I have had men approach me in lines before to speak. Some can just be friendly and extroverted. But some may be interested. I've heard that men only talk to people they are interested in too though. I think it depends on the context of what they are saying and also their body language like smiling, staring, etc.