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HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Why did my mom suddenly say this Posted : 30 Sep, 2024 07:46 PM My mom has been saving her wedding dress and she said maybe when I get married I can wear it. I have not even had a relationship lead to marriage and recently was kind of bummed about not finding anyone so I blurted out one day that I may not find anyone. My dad said one time he could use it jokingly for a cousin. My mom got mad at him and said no way! Today, we were going through old things and my mom said she might sell her wedding dress. I was shocked because she has been saving it for years! We then drove away later and she said maybe I will keep it though in case you get married or one of my brother's wives need a gown. I've never heard her say she would sell it before though. I got kind of sad afterward. Plus sad I'm not meeting anyone. Not sure if what I said triggered this but why did she say this suddenly?
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Should I pursue this Posted : 30 Sep, 2024 07:36 PM I got to thinking recently about wanting to get married. It is a goal of mine, especially at my age. I told my mom recently that I won't meet anybody like it won't happen for me. She said that's not true, you might meet someone. She is even saving her wedding gown and I feel so stupid for not getting married by now. There is a guy I met on here today (he is not my type at all) but he is good-looking). He said I like you and want to pursue you. He then gave me his Facebook and said I am serious in pursuing you as a gf/wife. We haven't had a conversation on getting to know each other yet. Should I see this as a red flag or keep chatting?
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	I need some serious advice on what is wrong with my profile Posted : 3 Aug, 2024 09:51 PM I am writing this for some serious advice. I want to know what I am doing wrong with my profile. I have nothing but people wanting a physical relationship with me, even if they don't explicitly say it. I have not captured anyone's interest for a long-term dating relationship. I know women who get matches left and right and go on dates and everything. I don't even get one guy to even ask me out to coffee! In real life, I work among a lot of younger men so I never flirt with them but I notice all they do is stare at me when I don't notice, but I notice. Also, I tried being really friendly with a guy whom I thought liked me, but when I talk to him he ignores only me out of my entire work group. I am very likeable and people say I am pretty so I am absolutely dumbfounded at what it could be. I need to know if it is my photo, profile, interests, etc. If anyone has any feedback, it would be really appreciated.
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Ask him if you cannot figure it out! Posted : 12 Jul, 2024 10:04 PM I agree, every man out there will ask you out if he really likes you and really get to know you prior
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Proper to be here if you have a bf/gf? Posted : 12 Jul, 2024 10:00 PM What do you mean "out of respect for both ladies?" So you're talking to multiple women.. and she can talk to multiple men.. which is fine But having a boyfriend prior to getting online is odd? Why even be on a date site then?

HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Losing Hope in Online Dating Posted : 7 May, 2024 03:55 PM True, no harm in keeping this open and making in-person connections as well
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Losing Hope in Online Dating Posted : 3 May, 2024 07:12 PM Let him keep sipping on that nonsensical Kool-Aid
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Losing Hope in Online Dating Posted : 3 May, 2024 07:12 PM Haha thank you Moonlight!! Put HandyMan in his place... seriously
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Losing Hope in Online Dating Posted : 2 May, 2024 11:31 AM Don't get sucked into the misinformation that one person is trying to spread if you catch my drift. Anyways, @moonlight and @jayzee you are both right. I think a guy will come along that I will really love. Not looking for perfection in the least but I like a specific type of person. They don't have to be 10's either but they have to be cute, interesting, and have a passion in life. Someone to treat me right as I would treat them
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile	Losing Hope in Online Dating Posted : 30 Apr, 2024 11:49 PM @WalkNTalk yes, honestly at this point staying single is the absolute best option. I have to agree!