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Linnie41
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I'm not ready.Posted : 14 Sep, 2009 04:09 PMThanks everyone so much for your prayers. It's truly appreciated. I'm usually pretty upbeat and positive about her cancer. I know it will take her life, but we've become closer in these months, and I'm truly blessed to have been given the opportunity to change my views on her, our relationship, priorities, and living. It just gets difficult when I let the focus slip off the big picture - her eternal salvation and everlasting life with God, and put it on the small picture - me. I don't remember a day in my life that I haven't spoken to her on the phone at least once. Not deep conversations, mind you, but a phone call to say things like, "Do you have a hammer I can borrow?" It will be strange to know she's not there anymore and I'm already wondering how many times I'll try to call her phone number out of habit once she's gone. I have to remind myself sometimes that her life with our Creator will be so much more wonderful than a life here on earth loaning out hammers.
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Linnie41
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I Don't Get it....Posted : 14 Sep, 2009 12:05 PMI see what you mean, Cattle, but the thing is, it wasn't expensive medicine. Not only that, but he offered to pick some up for her - she didn't ask him to. It was under $2 - I'd spend two bucks on someone I DIDN'T like! Lol I know you're just playing his advocate, but all in all, this guy sounds like a cheap-skate in dork's clothing. ;-)
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Linnie41
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Oposite Sex Friends Within An Exclusive Relationship Heading Towrards Marriage.Posted : 11 Sep, 2009 05:27 PMSacred Warrior, I agree with you completely, totally, absolutely, without a doubt, 100%!!! It is NOT a control issue, it's a matter of respect for the person you're with. I've done rounds with people about this - but it all boils down to meaning it when you say someone is #1 in your life (next to God, of course).
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Linnie41
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I Don't Get it....Posted : 11 Sep, 2009 01:30 AMI feel for you, and I'm not trying to be insensitive at all, but I can't stop giggling. That is one of the weirdest things I have ever heard. It's one of those shake your head, giggle and have that confused look on your face all at the same time moments.
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Linnie41
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I'm not ready.Posted : 10 Sep, 2009 03:41 AMToday I watched my mom eat. She ate slowly, chewing every bite extremely well before swallowing. She then took a drink to help it go down. We had pizza, and the kids and I were done long before she had taken three bites. The tumor is coming back.
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Linnie41
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What are mind games?Posted : 9 Sep, 2009 05:03 PMExactly, Ian. If God had wanted this to work, it would have. Oh well.
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Linnie41
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could use some prayer....Posted : 8 Sep, 2009 12:27 PMOh no!!! I'll be praying for a speedy recovery, no surgery, and the hay to get baled in record time. I'm also with you thanking God that it wasn't worse.
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Linnie41
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Gods LovePosted : 8 Sep, 2009 03:58 AMThe part that gets me is that God gave his only son for people He knew would never come to Him. He died for each and every person who has and ever will live. He died for Hitler. He died for Ted Bunde. He died for the worst of the worst of the worst (in our eyes, of course), just to give them the chance. Can you imagine giving your child's life for someone you knew would for the rest of their life laugh at your child, make fun of him, use his name as a vulgarity, and have absolutely no appreciation whatsoever of the sacrifice he had made?
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Linnie41
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TAVISTOCK - How the Elite Plays GodPosted : 6 Sep, 2009 11:12 PMWhere's Ian when we need him? :)
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Linnie41
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Don't call her mom....I'm your mom.Posted : 6 Sep, 2009 06:57 PMI thought about this, and I guess I kind of see it from a different standpoint. My daughter's step-mom (yes, she and my X are married), is fantastic with my daughter (who is now 21, by the way). My daughter still calls her by her first name, but when I refer to her, I say things like "how's your other mom?" or "what's your bonus-mom up to?" In the beginning, I sent this woman a card once, thanking her for being so great with my daughter. I told her how much I appreciated her for accepting Toni as one of her own. We started talking on the phone here and there, and over time, became good friends. Recently, she and my X, along with their two boys, came to the town we live in and stayed for 4 days at a motel in town. We had a great time together - she and I ditched everyone else to go shopping a few times. We have no ill feelings toward each other at all.
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