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1jon310

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Your Profile Effort
Posted : 30 Sep, 2017 06:33 PM

Rambo Do tell. Personally i suspect that most women are not used to making the effort to attract men. BUT this is the internet and a Christian dating site, so I wonder what the women are trying to convey about their spiritual depth when they write so little about themselves. There are a lot of mature people here (not age related) and just having a pretty picture is often not enough. I know that for myself if the picture looks good but there is not depth conveyed in the rest I will move on to a profile that does not have a picture but speaks of the woman's heart.
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Your Profile Effort
Posted : 29 Sep, 2017 04:02 PM

Every so often I read through some of the men's profiles looking for testimonies. I have found that mostly the men create better profiles then the women do. The men depict more spiritual depth then the women do. Assuming that everyone is sincere I would have to give a kudo to my brothers.



So many women have one liners that say nothing about themselves Some do not even have that much. I think that I know the answer but I ask anyway:



Why do many of the women put less effort into their profiles then the men do? Ladies feel free to chime in.
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Why are guys answering questions to the girls?
Posted : 21 Sep, 2017 06:26 PM

Pick the answer that you like:

1. Because we are working on our feminine side?

2. Because we live in a couture that feminizes men?

3. Because the church has been working to feminize men for decades?

4. Because there is not enough to keep us busy on the ASK MEN forum?

5. Because some of us would rather have a FAMILY ROOM where we can all discuss things and not be separated by gender? (My favorite)

6. Because we don't have a date to go on?

7. Feel free to add your own...
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Expectations. Dos And Don'ts
Posted : 21 Sep, 2017 06:19 PM

Sister: I hope that you are not expecting a simple list of rules to follow. It has been said and taught often that the thing that men need most is to be respected. The difficulty arises here because as each man and woman are unique we show and receive respect and also Love differently. I would suggest that you place more emphasis on being yourself and growing in Christ likeness. If you reflect Jesus in who you are and what you do, you will attract people who are attracted to Jesus and the people who are still living in rebellion to Jesus will not desire a righteous relationship with you. Beware of the wolves in sheep's clothing. Blessings r
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MR. RIGHT
Posted : 23 Aug, 2017 05:46 PM

I do not doubt what you are saying one bit. I can be grumpy but smiling inside (or outwardly if behind a screen) and fully enjoy the moment. There are those though who are grumpy simply because they have little joy in their lives and desire with sincerity to bring others into their company so that they can prove themselves to be "Right" no matter the cost.



Sincerely



perhaps



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Holdng Hands
Posted : 18 Aug, 2017 08:08 PM

Thank You for your input. I have read and feel that I understand the Love Languages book as well as some of the others in the series. The language of touch is one thing but after having observed others and talked with other men it just seems that women have a different understanding of holding hands. Even some women who do not have touch as a primary or secondary love language will show and affinity for holding hands when they do not really care for any other type of touch. But they can not explain to me why that is. So I am asking the women of this site. Could you explain with more depth please?
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Holdng Hands
Posted : 13 Aug, 2017 05:19 PM

Ok, Sisters in Christ. Many of your profiles speak to the desire to hold hands with your spouse or romantic interest. Please explain what the significance is of holding hands from YOUR (that means a woman's) point of view. How does holding hands affect your emotions, your state of love or feelings of well being?



Thank You r
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MR. RIGHT
Posted : 13 Aug, 2017 03:00 PM

Come on. Every one is so serious here. People used to have some fun on here. Ignore the grumpy people and have some fun and enjoy the life that you have right now instead of waiting for a life that is not yours yet. Stay grumpy and it may never be yours.



Have a Blessed Sunday and may Jesus be your true spouse always.



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MR. RIGHT
Posted : 12 Aug, 2017 07:15 PM

Guys: I don't know about you but with so many wonderful women looking for Mr. Right I am really glad that my name is not Mr. Right because with my luck I would be attracted to and marry a woman whose first name is "Always."



What do you say about that my brothers?
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Why do so many men feel threatened by girls with opinions?
Posted : 26 Jul, 2017 08:34 PM

If you are speaking about people on the site I would say that from my experience most people come onto a Christian dating site not because they are seeking someone who has strong convictions and a stable walk with Jesus but because they want a "nice" guy (or girl).



There are those who come to Christian circles because they believe that Christians are more gullable and are easier to take advantage of.



In the world of face to face there are few people inside or outside the church who really understand their own world view and how they came to claim that world view. If you are strong and have the foundations for your own view understood by yourself, then it will convict others of their own house of cards.



By all means, own your views, there will be many who are offended by them and will attack you for your views. Maybe they just need time to mature their own views.



As long as you agree with God and His word you cannot go wrong.
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