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really_54 View Profile History	Women and Bikinis on a Christian dating site Posted : 23 Dec, 2010 11:04 PM "Women and Bikinis" Recently, I had the audacity to send a lady on this site an email after noticing that she had just posted a picture of herself in a bikini. I will not argue the fact that the picture was very alluring, but something else bothered me. Why would a beautiful woman who claims to be a Born Again Christian display her body in such a manner on the internet for all the world to see? I'm sorry, I find it offensive that a Christian woman who is looking for a husband would display her body in such a manner. I certainly would not want my future wife advertising herself this way. "As a ring of gold in a swine's snout, so is a lovely woman who lacks discretion" (Proverbs 11:22). Yet judging by her angry letter, perhaps I was wrong and the woman was right: "Not my fault men like you can't get past their own flesh." So lets have your views ladies and gents on the subject of "Women and Bikinis" on a Christian dating site. Blessings in Christ, Paul Below is my letter to her: ********************************************************************** You are a beautiful lady, but you have diminished your beauty with the display of your bathing suit picture. It contradicts everything in your profile: "As for me and my house we shall serve the Lord" "that the women adorn themselves in modest apparel...which is proper for women professing godliness" (1 Timothy 2:9-10). Blessings, Paul ******************************************************************** Her response: ********************************************************************** Then don't view my profile U R 20 years older than me U R way 2 old Why would you even think of clicking onto my beach shot Please with the holier than thou Do U really think women read your blah blah blah novel profile A whole lot of ridiculous nothing No one would ever finish that in one sitting nor would want 2 Boring! U R not clever or righteous by any means Cast your stone somewhere else idiot truck driver & film maker That is laughable There is a reason U R single I advise U get a dog for companionship nothing worse than a jerk who spills out scripture with a bunch of nonsense and stupid icons I am listed on more favorite lists than any other woman here Perhaps it is your own lustful thoughts Exam your own perverted thoughts and convict yourself God made my body and I work hard to maintain my good health Only a man like you can take that and twist it into something impure Repent and do not view my profile again Do not respond I am not interested in your foolishness A true man of GOD can view my profile and find beauty only Your thoughts go past my intent You are disgusting for thinking such things of my pic I do serve the lord and I spend a lot of time on that very beach with my pocket bible. Not my fault men like you can't get past their own flesh I would have to cover up so U don't get excited That is your sin not mine fool Again Exam your impure thought to a peaceful shot of me at the beach DON"T pervert an innocent pic That is your mind not mine or real men of Christ No other man on this site made your comment The problem lies in your lustful eye So U R the Hypocrite Best you gauge it out as scripture instructs so U can enter heaven Good Luck I'm glad all the obese women who wear turtlenecks have a shot with you HA I bet U would Never date an overweight girl So Again Who's the HYPOCRITE U Don't look at my profile or pics "MY DEAR" Move onto Large unattractive women who contact U b/c God told them 2 U cannot turn down a woman if she emails U even if U find her not appealing Make sure U listen to GOD now and date them Being that U only want a good heart yeh right! Make sure U don't go to the beach U might end up in hell for having such perversion in your heart Repent Quickly Repent Hypocrite Post Reply
View Profile History	Women and Bikinis on a Christian dating site Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 03:12 AM Well, for sure she is not a Christian, because Christians do not behave like that. She came to the wrong place and put her "sexy" pictures at the wrong place too. Real men of God would not happy to see their future wife showing off parts of her body to public (hello gentlemen, am I right?)... Yes, we should pray for her.:prayingm::prayingm::prayingm: Post Reply
really_54 View Profile History	Women and Bikinis on a Christian dating site Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 11:42 PM Thank you Awesomelady for making such a bold stand. Blessings, Paul Post Reply
View Profile History	Women and Bikinis on a Christian dating site Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 08:08 AM I think penguinradar exposed her walk as well with such a silly opinion. Your kissy face is not much better. I have noticed your profile picture several times and I have no interest in seeing any more pictures of you and now that I have heard your attitude, you have confirmed my gut feelings about you. BTW....Awesomelady is an awesome lady. And my friend. Post Reply
lKingsprincess View Profile History	Women and Bikinis on a Christian dating site Posted : 21 Apr, 2011 01:09 PM Excuse me "truthslinger" I am an American Christian.There are true American Christians.Just because we don't put ourselves out there like your Bikini beauty in Paul's letter doesnt mean we don't exist.I am a true child of God.Check your scripture sir.I would never doubt that we exist in your land either.God is everywhere. I believe you are Christian probably but I would never argue if they exist in a land that God created. Carolyn Post Reply
View Profile History	Women and Bikinis on a Christian dating site Posted : 26 Apr, 2011 06:33 AM Well, that tells me that there are NOT that many Godly Men on this site due to her favorite list is High! Disappointed to hear that although we as women know that sight is a downfall for men to be lure away! Post Reply

really_54 View Profile History	Women and Bikinis on a Christian dating site Posted : 26 Apr, 2011 09:48 PM singleparent64..."we as women know that sight is a downfall for men to be lure away"...so true. "For man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart" (1 Samuel 16:7). Thank you for sharing. Blessings, Paul Post Reply
View Profile History	Women and Bikinis on a Christian dating site Posted : 20 Jun, 2011 07:52 AM Why do we continue to miss the real message of Christ, which is love. When you judge someone else by their appearance, are you not just as guilty of sin as they? There are none rightous. NO NOT ONE! God bless. Post Reply
View Profile History	Women and Bikinis on a Christian dating site Posted : 20 Jun, 2011 10:29 AM If The Lord Jesus had turned away from Just one leper, there could have never been salvation. God desires MERCY, not sacrifice. God bless Post Reply
View Profile History	Women and Bikinis on a Christian dating site Posted : 7 Jul, 2011 06:46 PM I do think we are supposed to be different than the world..If we dress inappropriately and are a stumbling block to someone that is wrong..There is alot of difference in wearing a bathing suite on the beach and displaying yourself on a dating site,,It goes back again to modesty and being different than the world..I feel the reaction from this woman was very rude and shows anger,,If you feel you are not wrong ,just ignore not lash out.... Post Reply
View Profile History	Women and Bikinis on a Christian dating site Posted : 12 Jul, 2011 10:55 PM Bikini is not of God. Anyone that does that is not of a true Christian. A true Christ need to cover his/her body, not exposing a flesh that will lead one into sin. So let becareful on how we dress as Christian. The livestyle of Christ protrate simplicity and gentleness, let buy into it and live a life worthy of all acceptation by GOD. Thanks. Post Reply